Table 3 Communication related goals identified by participants
Patient approach goals for communication | Carer approach goals for communication |
|---|---|
Appropriate conversations More conversation around intimacy Talking more opening and honestly abut both of our feelings I would be communicating more effectively I would check in with {partner}. Start things off (talking about it) Have constructive conversations about struggles and support when needed Feel comfortable to communicate feelings whenever Hopefully our communication would be better Able to communicate difficult emotions, not only positive. Reach out more easily Being able to communicate better Be able to express our feelings without the fear of upsetting someone I am more open with {partner} and we can have discussions about my sprogress more openly | Talking more Talking more open about everything Communicating better in the moment Better communication Easier to talk about issues because they are open—we are on the same page Open communication or knowing when {daughter} is starting to feel uncomfortable in a situation More communication regarding the eating disorders Would talk more. {Daughter} would know this is something that I want to help with. Not a burden Communicating better etc |
Patient avoidance goals for communication | Carer avoidance goals for communication |
|---|---|
Not making comments on others food etc There wouldn’t be so many arguments My mother would not say triggering things Understanding what they can help with and that some things that are said can be more harmful than good Language at home would be different. Less arguments Would like for it to be a bit easier to communicate and not withdraw as much | Speaking without checking potential misunderstandings Less theft and lies |